From the very beginning, God established a divine blueprint for human connection. In Genesis 2:18, the Lord declared, “It is not good for man to be alone,” creating woman as his perfect companion.
This wasn’t merely about filling a void of loneliness; it was about reflecting God’s own nature of love, unity, and glory. Marriage and relationships were designed to be a living testimony of Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:25-32). When we function according to this design, our relationships become powerful vessels demonstrating His character to a watching world.
The Enemy’s Strategic Assault
Because godly relationships are such a threat to the kingdom of darkness, Satan has targeted them since the Garden of Eden. As John 10:10a warns, his mission is to steal, kill, and destroy.
The enemy wants to steal the joy in your connection, kill the life in your marriage, and destroy the relationship entirely. Paul warns us in Ephesians 4:27, “Do not give the devil a foothold.” Yet, too often, we unknowingly open doors through:
- Unforgiveness and bitterness
- Pride and selfish ambition
- Communication breakdowns
These become entry points where discord is sown. To protect our unions, we must be vigilant in closing these doors.
The Call for a New Wave
Today, God is calling for a New Wave of His glory to sweep through our homes. This is not about superficial improvements or temporary fixes; it is a fundamental shift from operating in human strength to walking in divine power.
The promise of 2 Chronicles 7:14 applies powerfully here: When we humble ourselves, seek His face, and turn from destructive patterns, He promises to hear from heaven and heal our “land”—including the landscape of our relationships.
Steps to Embrace the N.E.W.W.A.V.E.
To experience this transformation, we must intentionally walk through these seven steps:
- N – Nurture your relationship with God first. You cannot give what you do not possess. Daily intimacy with the Father fills your “cup” so you can pour love into others.
- E – Eliminate every foothold the enemy may have gained. Confess sins, release unforgiveness, and close doors through repentance and the blood of Jesus.
- W – Welcome the Holy Spirit’s presence. Invite Him into every conversation, decision, and interaction.
- W – Walk in love daily. Choose love as an action, not just a feeling. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 remains our perfect blueprint.
- A – Affirm one another. Speak words of life, blessing, and encouragement. Build each other up rather than tearing down.
- V – Declare God’s Victory. Speak His promises over your union, believing that His best is yet to come.
- E – Expect God’s glory to manifest. Faith creates the atmosphere for miracles.
Conclusion
The time has come for our marriages to truly reflect the heart of God. As we surrender control to the Lord and walk in obedience to His Word, we position ourselves for a transformation that the world cannot ignore. Let us embrace this new wave with expectation, knowing that what surrenders to His lordship will display His magnificent glory for all to see.
